Let’s be honest—election season is everywhere right now. You can’t escape it. It’s on TV, all over social media, and even creeping into conversations at work or with friends and family. And while some people dive headfirst into these discussions, I’m changing my approach this year. I’m choosing not to talk about the election with anyone, and I want to tell you why.

First off, let’s get one thing straight: It’s not because I don’t care. I absolutely do. I’ve done my homework, I know where I stand on the issues (and candidates), and I’m ready to cast my vote. But here’s the deal- getting into political debates just isn’t for me this time around.

Ever been in one of those super fun conversations where it feels like you’re just going in circles? You’ve got your views, they’ve got theirs, and neither of you is budging an inch. It’s exhausting. So what is the friggin point? I’ve realized that more often than not, those interactions don’t lead to anyone changing their mind. I’d rather save my energy for something more … pleasant (like stubbing my toe, watching paint dry, or drinking spoiled milk).

Talking politics is heavy. It’s emotional. And, quite frankly, it can be draining as hell. I am deeply passionate about some of the larger themes in this election. But at the end of the day, I’m also passionate about protecting my peace. My mental well-being is worth a whole lot more than an argument where everyone loses.

Here’s a wild idea: We don’t all have to agree on everything. Shocking, I know! But seriously, everyone’s got their own perspective shaped by their life experiences. By not diving into what can be quite divisive and deeply personal political talks, I’m respecting not just my boundaries, but everyone else’s too. We can have different views and still be friends.

The election outcome? Out of my hands after I cast my vote. How I spend my time and energy? That’s something I can control. Instead of getting caught up in debates that go nowhere, I’m focusing on what I can actually influence: my work, my relationships, my happiness.

So, that’s where I’m at this election season. I’m choosing quiet over quarrel, focusing on what matters to me, and respecting the boundaries we can all use right about now. If you’re feeling the same way, don’t worry—you’re not alone. We can care deeply about our country’s future without getting lost in the noise. After all, sometimes silence speaks volumes.

I'm Not Discussing the Election

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